Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Horse riding with contacts in?

Q. I am going to ride with my contacts tom. and im kinda nervous that they will start getting dried out or irrated from the dirt and im a jumper so that cant happen tom.!!!

A. I'm sure there are many people who ride jumpers (and other equestrian sports) who wear contacts successfully. You might ask your eye doctor what he/she recommends, or talk to other equestrians and see what works for them.

For me, one of the best decisions I ever made was to get LASIK surgery so I didn't need corrective lenses of any kind. I couldn't wear contacts at all, so I had to wear glasses. Lenses that get fogged with sweat dripping onto them when it's hot-- dust making it hard to see through them-- scratched lenses and broken frames when I got thrown-- discomfort of glasses slipping down my nose and having to be pushed back into place. And when it rained, forget about it! Ten minutes of that and my lenses would be so blurry I couldn't see out of them.

The first day I went up to the stable after the LASIK was like heaven on earth. For the first time since I was 9 years old, I could actually SEE without any problems while riding, and didn't have to deal with problems relating to my glasses!

It was worth every penny of what it cost to have the surgery done. That was 13 years ago and I still feel that way. Best decision I ever made.


I just had lasik surgery ?
Q. I was just wondering what I should avoid doing ? They said to avoid sunlight and dont rub but thats pretty much it !

A. You should avoid rubbing. The sunlight is because your eyes are more light sensitive. You should also avoid any activity where you would be sweating. The sweat can get into your eyes and carries bacteria that could cause infection. Also avoid any situations where you would get hit or poked in the eyes. For example holding a small child. After about a week, you can get back to normal.


On a Break but Living Together?
Q. Two days ago, my boyfriend decided he wanted a break. He said he felt like I didn't love him, which I do. A LOT. He told me that I should take 2 weeks to decide whether or not I wanted to be together with him. I told him I didn't need 2 weeks and yes I wanted to be with him. He said yes, take the two weeks. We will live together still, just consider this 2 weeks of celibacy. He said in the meantime, figure out what you want to do with your life because you can't be so dependent on me. You need a life of your own. He still kisses me bye and sleeps with me in the same bed. Last night I turned him down on sex because I told him he couldn't have it both ways. We both agreed that we would not see other people.

Yesterday we went shopping for our house and I told him I didn't feel comfortable spending money on the house without knowing if we were going to be together. He said we should put together our money in the future and give it to his dad so we can save money better. He also said I should look into LASIK eye surgery so I wasn't so dependent on him driving at night. He then said at the store that he wanted a certain item for Christmas and we should buy new tires for our car over the next few months.

Is he setting me up so he doesn't feel so bad if we break up or does he want to continue this relationship. When I tell him I want to be with him, he says just think about it another 2 weeks. We've been living together for 3 years. I don't understand?
He hasn't cheated on me. We literally spend all of our time together, except work. He invites me out with him. He said I have been mean and slacking lately.

A. Men need to feel adored, strong, needed and like the King of their domain.

Women need to feel beautiful, desired and important.

If one of you doesn't give one of those elements daily, the relationship hits a bump. Until one of you start doing those things again, and apologize for your behavior the relationship wont work. Once you start practicing these basic elements, your relationship will once again flourish.

He drives at night because you have bad vision, my fiance does the same for me ... all the time after 2 years. Every time he drives I thank him for it, I thank him for getting me home safe ..... this makes him feel needed and like a big deal. Him driving you around is protecting you, being strong for you ... you have to appreciate those little things.

What are you doing to make him feel strong? Feel important? Feel like a big deal?
Every time I see my Mr Wonderful, I walk over to him and greet him with a big hug and a kiss. I ask him about his day. I make him breakfast every morning, and pack his lunch. This makes him feel important. In turn he goes to work confident and in a great mood and does great work.

But he makes me feel beautiful. Sends me poetry, brings home flowers, sends love notes on my facebook page, hides love notes around the house, tells me I am beautiful everyday. So I want to be beautiful for him because he appreciates me.

If you wear sweats THROW THEM AWAY. Do your hair, wear at least some ,make up ... like when you first met.Men are visual .... you must stimulate him visually in all that you do.

I hope you can see how my examples are acts of kindness towards each other that keeps the relationship rolling.

Keep up with open communication, and don't deny your man sex as a punishment, he will resent you for it, and for that you need to get super sexy, light candles, and apologize for being naughty last night and saying no. Go win your man back woman, you are a sensuous, beautiful, creature; you may have lost your way but I hope this advice helps you get back on the right path to holding on to your soul mate and never letting go.


Is this how ANXIETY feels like? or am i crazy? lol ..?
Q. ever since i got Lasik i've been more anxious than usual. I get panicky and my heart rate goes up if i see blurry (even for a second) i regret doing this surgery even though i now see 20/15. The other day i woke up after a nap and my vision was blurry, i started crying and wailing .... my heart rate was fast and i was sweating and shaking at the same time, i even got diahrrea lol ! why? they had to give me valiums and tylenol pm to calm me down during the procedure. I am very anxious now.ALL THE TIME.
Anxious about the sun hitting my eyes
the air
the water inside my eyes
the germs in my fingers and hands
putting my drops on time
protecting my eyes at night
etc etc

HELP!!

A. Your jus worrying about losing your eyesight again. I think you should just chill out! lol. [[some people get diahrrea or need to sh*t when they have anxiety]] You should get some anxiety pills. See a doctor.





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